I asked myself that question after reading horny historical letters that men from the 1800s used to write to their wives. In modern media, however, the praise on men's sexuality and genitalia is often crude, phalocentric, and with a self-indulging desire, mostly stemming from progressive gay men and women. Men's erotic poetry show altruistic desire of making the woman feel good, meanwhile the best 'male worship' is usually about domination, how men demand to be served, and praise to them is always forced, fearful, earthly. There's poor use of metaphors that aren't plain objectification of the penis, maybe muscles, so on.