Where did I mess up on this next-day convo?

bocank · 2022-10-30T23:36:43+00:00

I see nothing wrong with the texts.

Maybe after a day or two ask her if she's feeling better - and ask her out. And you'll know were you stand.

juice2092 · 2022-10-30T23:27:27+00:00

Maybe she’s just hungover. You’re probably overthinking. Or she’s regretting what happened

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-31T07:22:29+00:00

Girls at clubs, bars, and wild parties -- this is just ONS territory.Sorry, but if you fail to seal the deal (or even if you do) in party environments - you can fully expect nothing to happen afterwards.This is even more the case if the girl is halfway hot and has options. Don't be surprised that she doesn't get back to you.

Anyway, let's look at her text:

She said "Thanks" for whatever it was you did. That usually means "We're done here". Welp that sucks. Girls always say this once they fully intend to not want to see you again. It just implies that you did your bit, now go away! I remember getting girls write me thank you notes after sex in the morning and then disappearing, never to see me again. They were trying to tell me something.

She also said "I don't know how I got that bad" meaning "I actually do this all the time, but I don't want you to think less of me for doing it"... because go wild at a party is what she does all the time.

Sorry this is probably what you don't want to hear, but this opportunity has passed you by.

I remember propositioning two women for sex at the same time at one halloween party a long time ago, one asian girl, one Indian girl. and the Indian girl put her hand up. Whatever, so she got me. Went home with her. Banged her... then never saw her again. And that was just one Halloween party of quite a few.

g3wb3r · 2022-10-31T00:07:07+00:00

Chances are you were a drunk makeout buddy and nothing else... give it a few days and if nothing send her an invitation text and that will give you your definitive answer

skyman583 · 2022-10-31T16:15:14+00:00

Honestly the thing is when you’re talking to girls at parties, especially if they have been drinking, women are just in the moment. So she might’ve been horny and made out with you at the time with no real intention of following up on anything else. I could be wrong, but emotions can be fickle. But I wouldn’t wait too long on her, talk to other girls in the mean time.

Title	Where did I mess up on this next-day convo?
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Date	October 30, 2022 11:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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