My gf says i'm too clingy and our relationship is too serious. (M17) (F17)

Lucazzz14 · 2022-10-30T22:11:42+00:00

overall i just want to know if you think I'm too clingy and or i am taking my relationship too serious?

Possibly, possibly not. We haven't see any messages or seen how you act.

Just take a step back and breath. This girl is with you for whatever reason. Just keep continuing what you're doing, take her out, do stuff together, rinse and repeat. Let her bring up the relationship talks.

If you are possibly acting a little clingy, again take a step back and chill. She's with you. You being more relaxed will make you come across as more confident. The minute you act clingy and do things out of jealousy is the moment you'll fuck up and push her away. You sense her creating distance so you act even more out of spite to "get her back", thus pushing her away more. It's an evil cycle to be in.

Do you instantly reply to messages? Only reply when you genuinely can. Don't stop everything to reply.

You have other hobbies or studying? Focus on them for an amount of time.

You have friends? Hang out with them too. Have your own time.

You're at a party together? Yeah stick together at the start to build rapport with people but then go solo for a bit and potentially meet new people. Get talking. Be the guy everyone wants to talk to.

You want to see her all the time during the week? I get it but you both have lives as well.

Just chill out and have fun man. Focus on the present. If it's meant to be serious and something for the future, honestly the time will fly so fast, before you know it it'll be 1 year, 2 years and so on.

Chadmoii · 2022-10-30T22:13:08+00:00

You are 17... take it easy.

Musician-Round · 2022-10-30T22:19:58+00:00

a majority of girls at that age says something similar to that. It just means that she doesn't know what she wants and doesn't want to feel like she is limiting herself and/or being limited.

Consider it a sign that it may be time for you to move on before either of you end up getting hurt.

Title	My gf says i'm too clingy and our relationship is too serious. (M17) (F17)
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Date	October 30, 2022 9:41 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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