Not going to go into too much detail but basically I have a few friends, a few different girls that I talk to/hookup with kind of regularly but I know I could do better. I constantly beat myself up because I'm a college student at a community college that's in the same city as the major university but I feel like my social life just isn't what I want it to be. My two best friends used to live down here and I hung out with them all of the time until they graduated and went back home. I have some friends down here but not a lot and I have a few girls but I want more options and I know I could do better. How do I stop limiting myself? I usually only work and come home. Sometimes going out to the bars on the weekend but I often just hang around my friends and don't branch out much. I want to be a social butterfly but as of right now and me typing this, I am just not. I want to be the guy that knows everyone when he goes out. I love to be alone but I'm tired of it quite frankly. I recently discovered I have no hobbies, I don't know what my interests are, and my sex life is just mediocre. How do I open my social circle and get invited to do things with people like birthday parties or going to eat or going on an adventure? Also how do I go about having more girl friends as well as more casual dates? I use Hinge right now and it's meh for me. Not awful but could be better.