My body language is pretty weird, need some advice

pupburrito1 · 2022-10-20T16:10:29+00:00

Your body language usually "repairs" itself when you are not self-conscious and trying to control all your actions.

Ofc there are ways to make yourself look more attractive via body language but that's a bit higher tier game already.

You could check out Amy North's Obsession Method if you want to improve your physical game.

Unfocused_Brilliance · 2022-10-20T14:07:52+00:00

When in Rome, do as the Romans do. It is not necessarily that you are doing anything weird, it is that you are not matching cultural norms so you are showing that you do not belong. That makes people uncomfortable. You see similar results from people’s appearances. Look up the theory of the Uncanny Valley. It is based on appearance, but is just as applicable to body language and mannerisms.

ApproachOrDie · 2022-10-20T15:00:19+00:00

Hi mate, 'What every BODY is saying' by FBI agent Joe Navarro is a great insight on body language as a whole. If you focus on improving it, at first it'll feel strange but eventually become natural. Cring af but practicing in front of the mirror can help. Also, try and spend more time around guys good with girls- you'll pick up their gesticulations too.
Some basics while approaching women-
-Have your weight one one foot that is facing her, and one foot facing away, that's relaxed.That way you'll put less pressure on her. If you're close to a wall, lean on it.

When teasing e.g 'you're names Rebecca, oh deary dear' *pause* *one partially closed hand covering mouth, thumb on chin,elbow resting on other hand that's closed across your body*
'what what??'
'when I was a kid, my EVER first date had the same name, I ghosted her after though, i'm so sorry I still feel bad' *cheeky smile, open body language* can hug if she's laughing.
Never lean in more than she does.
When sitting, splay at least one arm across another chair if available- (in general) the more space you take up, the better!
Never sit opposite fully a chick unless you want to raise the chance of being friend zoned.
When breaking eye contact, look up, not down. Never break it on topics with sexual tension.
Smile with your eyes when greeting people, it'll be more real.

Hope this helps!

nofaploveit · 2022-10-20T17:20:28+00:00

Sounds like you’re very critical of yourself. Try not to think about it as much.

Title	My body language is pretty weird, need some advice
Author	FluidMathematician42
Upvotes	24
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Date	October 20, 2022 1:25 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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