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[–]RedditsOlderBrah 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
ha. cute.
i wish when i was younger i just straight up asked when i was confused about something. like if i were you i'd just send dude a msg with 'just to clarify, is this a date or a friend thing? 100% cool with either.' but for some reason i never did and just agonised over what was really pretty silly stuff.
dates where you're both awful at whatever it is are fun as hell, and watching how someone handles failure and embarrassment can be highly instructive on whether or not they're a keeper.
have fun you crazy kids.
[–]necriel 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed.
[–]lifeintraining 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just agree to go and play it by ear. If he tries to kiss you or escalate physically you’ll know he’s interested. As a women you really don’t have to do much.
Edit: I read your post history. He’s into you. It’s possible he’s not confident enough to express this or make a move.
[–]maverick2269222 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Get in his space, physically, a little more than you usually do. See how he reacts every time you push a little more. Assess and correct
[–]whale_sports -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uhhh just say "yeah, sounds great..."
[–]zapadz -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here is a video with some ways
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOvV60Cz9W0
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