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[–]cinamontastingroshi 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I missed the old forums where you can look for wingman's is there anything similar left out there
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s a daygame sub on Reddit that has global and local group chats on telegram but could not access my local group chat.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Wish I was there to help man, u can always just go out with friends or go out to bars and stuff and talk to women as practice
[–]Jasonhardon 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
No unfortunately friends tend to suck in this situation. He needs people who are actually good in pickup or some people that can hold a conversation. Maybe he can ask a female cousin to help him pick up. Women tend to be more social savvy. He can also look through some old websites like Mystery Method/Love Systems or RSD or some other lounge to look for global wings/help. If he can’t find a wing he should learn to dance and work on his closing technicals for solo pickups. He doesn’t always need a wing. If he can’t close that’s more of a game related issue and maybe he can benefit from hiring a dating coach
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I have to agree. I used to be out and about with my friend but I rarely ever approached. I’m looking for someone that has actual experience gaming with morals of course.
Lol if you’re looking for morals it’s not me😂 but I will say the only way to get better at talking to women is approaching them and eventually it gets easier. And once it feel natural then start improving with more women that are prettier. I used to literally be shaking talking to women, no joke the first few times I barely standing up but through exposure u get practice and practice makes perfect
[–]No_Intention_8878 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I approach constantly at bars with friends but then they’re always pissed at me the next day for not “hanging with the boys”
[–]No_Intention_8878 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My friends all shame me for approaching women at bars…
[–]Jasonhardon 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ditch the friends, go with PUAs instead. Your friends are not responsible for your happiness in life, you are, so who cares what they think. It’s not like they can get married for you or get a girlfriend for you. You have to go out and put in the work
[–]No_Intention_8878 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do I find wings in my city? I’m in the suburb of a middle sized (1.2mil pop) midwestern usa city
[–]Jasonhardon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Well first thing is to make yourself happy. Wings come second. Join some women friendly hobbies yoga, learning to dance by in dance studios, universities, singles events, speed dating etc. To find wings, you can try maybe having a female cousin wing you. Women are naturally more conversational than men so are probably more adapt to winging. Also join global pick up communities like RSD or Love Systems or something similar to that. Make friends online and meet off line. It’s a good way to meet other PUAs or other guys trying to improve this area of their life. & They mostly won’t judge you for trying to take action. Worse case scenario, you don’t find any wings but improve yourself enough to learn how to consistently close going solo. & it’s not like your wings can close the HBs for you, you need to learn to do that yourself soooo....
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody is going to volunteer to babysit you. People legit get paid for that shit. If you want to improve, go out solo and start learning from infield experiences. You'll find wings if you go out frequently enough.
[–]instigatoress 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
are you attractive?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah fairly attractive.
[–]SnooCheesecakes6900 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you think your lacking? Making the approach? Conversation skillls? Confidence?
A bit of all of that to be honest. Also a framework would be good because I’ve sometimes felt all over the place with my communicative timing
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