A girl I used to orbit from my class..

Zachar1a · 2018-03-04T14:19:03+00:00

“You forgot about me?!?”

“Yeah”

aaromalloyola · 2018-03-03T18:40:52+00:00

Sharing something that worked with my oneitis.

Complete no contact for 1.5 years,worked on myself,gained some good muscle.

Finally she came on to me. And that was when I realized I could do better. Work on yourself mate. These girls are going nowhere.

smirk_addict · 2018-03-03T16:33:44+00:00

I understand that high school is your entire life right now. This girl knows you want to fuck her but enjoys having your attention and you longing for her. You're afraid to end it because of high school "drama"? One day you realize how utterly stupid this is and how pathetic that it is that you even worry about all of this. Block her, stop responding, or give her an ultimatum. But this simply cannot continue.

fnordsnord · 2018-03-03T18:50:04+00:00

You remain in beta-orbiter status. She's getting affirmation that you find her attractive while providing nothing in return.

If you were a little older, I'd advice you to delete and block her on all media, but if she gets butthurt about it, she can poison other girls by talking you up as an asshole.

You're doing pretty well, really. Avoid her face to face. Your response to "you forgot about me" is golden. "No I didn't."

For general interrogatives like "What's up," "what's going on," and "what are you doing/are your plans," I suggest:

"Oh, you know, guy stuff." "The usual." "Same ol' same ol'" or, the ever popular: "Gotta study."

When you see her face-to-face, give her the "yo, dude," half-smile that you'd give a guy you used to take PE with but don't know very well and then go on about your business.

If she approaches you and talks, be polite, responsive, but your answers non-committal. Beg off as soon as you can because you have to get home/to class/to practice/lunch or whatever.

If she asks questions like "can't we be friends," respond with "What? We are."

If she wants to know what's up with you, what's wrong, or why the change, "Just busy. Graduation is coming up; I gotta be ready."

DadOnDabs · 2018-03-03T16:01:23+00:00

You sound like you're friendzoned. I know it's not what you want to hear but either man up and be more overt about what you want or drop the bitch.

See if you can arrange hanging out with her without her BF being present. Take it from there.

EnzoGold · 2018-03-03T16:37:15+00:00

I’m your age and when I had a oneitis I cut all contact and stopped talking to her.

What you should do is keep her as a friend. Hot girls have hot friends. I wish I could have kept my oneitis as a friend but I didn’t know any better and I knew I had to get rid of it.

Jo2ukegappy · 2018-03-03T17:07:32+00:00

Next time she texts some shit like "you forgot about me", reply with something more in the line of "yeah, I got other stuff to do". Don't kneel before her.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-03-03T20:37:26+00:00

there's this one girl

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xNightly · 2018-03-03T21:16:52+00:00

Holy shit was I in the exact same position as you (I'm also 17 as well in senior.). I deorbited that bitch and blocked her from my life. Began hitting the gym and I'm infinitely better than I was back then. Check out my posts in the past.

RunawayGrain · 2018-03-04T03:25:39+00:00

I stopped initiating text with her but she keeps texting me stuff like 'you forgot about me' which I just respond "No I didn't" and stuff like 'what's up' which I don't know how to respond to, since I'm not interested in that small talk with her.

I'd say respond by blocking her.

Honestly, though, after you graduate she won't matter at all.

[deleted] · 2018-03-03T20:01:56+00:00

You're a very young guy and when you're in high school it seems like relationships are some sacred entity.

The older you get the more you'll realize that relationships mean very little and most girls will cheat when presented the opportunity. This is why you should treat girls with boyfriends like they're single.

Title	A girl I used to orbit from my class..
Author	LielS30
Upvotes	14
Comments	29
Date	March 3, 2018 3:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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