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upsafetynextchapter · 2022-09-03T10:14:09+00:00

I will simplify this entire situation for you. Are you and your girlfriend in an open relationship or is commitment a key pillar of your relationship? Imagine that your girlfriend posted this exact post word for word on Reddit about one of your friends. Would you think it was hilarious? Would you be hurt? I'm concerned by how much time and energy you have put into this minor interaction. Whether she likes you or not is irrelevant - you've got a partner already. Having a partner comes with some conditions. Figure out quick smart if you are willing to abide by those conditions of commitment or not and whether or not they apply to your relationship.

2022-09-03T10:05:33+00:00

ill be honest. yes. you should tell your gf, to not is to hold a potentially relationship damning secret. break it to her gently, but that nothing beyond this scenario had happened, but you ought to share the suspicions but reassure your girl you're there for her, no one else because in terms of a relationship, your girl ought to be your first priority, not any other girl.

learnbyrepetition · 2022-09-03T11:43:36+00:00

I guess the question you need to ask yourself is what do you want to happen at this point. If you don’t want anything to happen with her, just don’t do anything, I wouldn’t say anything to her or your GF unless you have clear proof that she wants something.

Now if you do want something it’ll depend on whether you’re willing to leave/cheat on your GF or if you’re in an open relationship.

From what you said I wouldn’t be too sure she’s into you, but you’re the one that was there so I may be missing something.

NinetailsDestruction · 2022-09-03T11:46:07+00:00

No she was not into you. She was just being friendly. She could be slightly autistic and that’s why she can’t make eye contact. The shoulder thing could be friendly as well. I doubt she would hurt her friend. I’m not sure if you should focus that deeply on other women like that, there’s no power to it just pleasing the ego.

You shouldn’t hope that she likes you, I know it feels good to get attention like that but just stick to one girl mentally and don’t fool around with people.

2022-09-03T10:48:19+00:00

You should deal with it yourself. Don't escalate and clearly set a border.

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Date	September 3, 2022 9:51 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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