Girl said she wanted to be just friends but a few days later she's texting me and sending me shit?

RadDad20192020 · 2022-08-11T01:47:00+00:00

She’s older so she knows what’s up. If I were you I’d just let her know you’re not interested in being pen pals but you’re open to just hooking up. Maybe she doesn’t see something long term with you for one of a million different reasons but there’s obviously some type of interest coming from her if she’s contacting you so frequently.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-08-11T02:30:41+00:00

When the conversation is really going ask her out again. If she says no game over. But hey you got a friend if you want.

sxMURPHxs · 2022-08-11T02:45:15+00:00

You didn't offer much information about her understandably So like she's I guess divorced?How long was she married for? How long has it been? of course is she actually divorced or had just got cold feet on her plan to cheat? Do you have Access to her Facebook page ? Basically if she's married stay away from her

kettlebell_workout · 2022-08-11T01:46:22+00:00

She is 38. She does not have a lot of options.

Most likely is horny and wants to fuck.

Make sure the logistics are good this time. No interruptions. And close it.

bandeznuts · 2022-08-11T02:33:07+00:00

Woman: says let’s be friends, proceeds to act like a friend. Op: why is she texting me memes???!

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-08-11T02:05:21+00:00

She's probably wants to go out again but wants you to anti up more. You probably have to take her on a fancier date, maybe buy her a dress and take her to some place to go ball room dancing, or something like that.

You have to really cater to her as an interest by keeping connected with her via text.

Should you ask her out again? Are you ready to take her out on a bigger date?

Ancient-Position-696 · 2022-08-11T02:50:31+00:00

Invite her for another date. But next time make a move. She'll either block or accept. You've already made out as you say so it'll be easy to go further. Your doing good by not responding every time and not constantly communicating keep it up. But next time you text disregard her message and set up the date. If she rejects leave her to the wolves she's wasting your time. There's always another beautiful 38 year old lonely woman.

Reasonable_Ad_6626 · 2022-08-11T03:39:48+00:00

Can't play games with a cougar.

Be honest and upfront about what you want from her.

Odds are pretty high she's not really waiting to waste time on a 28 year old who's STILL playing games

Ancient-Position-696 · 2022-08-11T05:03:15+00:00

Leave her alone. At 38 she's looking trap you. There's nothing you did to change her mind. You are not that handsome. Your game is not that tight. It's the classic scarcity technique.

OvniLime · 2022-08-11T05:37:43+00:00

Don't, she is crazy more than likely and will probably turn up with another "blessing" and try to say it's your doing Avoid her She's also maybe an old shit wanting to feel like young shit by acting like it, just do t you do t need crazy in your bed

Title	Girl said she wanted to be just friends but a few days later she's texting me and sending me shit?
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Date	August 11, 2022 1:41 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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