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Quick Question: Buying Girls drinks...

JukeLuke

March 7, 2018

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Ok, so I am a big advocate of not buying girls drinks.

Especially at the beginning. In my head, it literally means "Oh im not attractive enough/dont have any game, therefore Ill spend money to get you fucked up and maybe you'll be so fucked up that you will fuck me at the end of the night"

Not to mention, ive had plenty of girls buy me drinks before. I always laugh when a girl comes up to a guy, acts all flirty, and the dude buys her drinks all within 5 minutes and then the girl leaves.

However, what if you have already been talking to a new girl for a decent amount of time (30-45min) at a bar, maybe its alright to buy her a drink? (Say something like "Ok you got next round after this * laugh/grin *). Like after 30-45 minutes and the girl is still interesting in you, it probably is a good sign.

What do you guys think?

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Title	Quick Question: Buying Girls drinks...
Author	JukeLuke
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	March 7, 2018 4:31 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/82ll4k/quick_question_buying_girls_drinks/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/quick-question-buying-girls-drinks.125240 https://theredarchive.com/post/125240

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[–]chomponthebit5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]JukeLuke[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]chomponthebit1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Busy bar/club: Always go in a group of guys and gals. Be everyone’s friend. Be funny, and fun. Shake hands, high fives, squeeze shoulders (not painfully), always touch people appropriately when you enter the group and when you leave. You buy a round then your friend buys the next etc. Tip your bartender well - we wing for people we like. If you have lots of friends, especially women friends, other women know you must be great. DO NOT bang your wingwomen - you can use them for years to get you laid. Remember their birthdays, send them witty txts, be the dude they love camping with. But do not bang your ww.

Game: make eye contact with surrounding girls from within your group. Smile and wink, nod your head, be cocky without being creepy (practice in the mirror). Mouth “Hi!” She responds, you move to the edge of your group and give her the come hither hand motion. Ask, “What’s your name?” Blah blah whatever. Point back to your group with your thumb, “We’re here for my buddy Emily’s birthday. What are you guys doing?”

Okay, I’m not describing an entire fucking scenario other than to say have massive social proofs (lots of friends). Treat everyone as important. Remember names. Make everyone feel like they’re the centre of your universe. Everyone has a hot bangable friend, and when you meet her, you treat her like everyone else. Use kino as you talk. Touch the small of her back as you guide her and her friends into your group and introduce her to everyone. Do not forget names. “Hey, you on FB/Snap?” Get it immediately, but don’t make a date yet. She’s friends with your friends now, and you’re all hanging out right now... help your bros pick up. Don’t get jealous if a pal gets the girl you want. Help him. Be everyone’s friend. Be invaluable. And you will get it all back in spades

[–]JukeLuke[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great points. I got a few questions though.

Tip your bartender well - we wing for people we like

Ok I get tipping. How about introducing myself? (like a handshake and say "Im JukeLuke. What about you?"). Obviously no long convos since its busy but is that fine? I feel knowing their name and vice versa helps a lot in everything.

DO NOT bang your wingwomen - you can use them for years to get you laid. Remember their birthdays, send them witty txts, be the dude they love camping with. But do not bang your ww.

Ok define wingwomen. I know its a girl that you don't bang and has a lot of hot friends. But how do you decide that this specific HB8/9 is going to be the wingwoman? What qualities do wingwomen have that make it more worthwhile for me to friend-zone them instead of bang them? Not going to lie but most of my texts/actions are built around getting me laid. Having a hot woman or women that I am just friends with and don't plan on going further is new to me.

Do not forget names

Im very bad at names. Within 10 seconds of meeting someone new, I typically forget their name. However, is it really that bad? For example, I meet girl at bar once and had a great time. Then a week later, I see her again at the same bar and she is all happy to see me (runs and hugs me, etc). Typically, I then ask the girl "Yo my bad, whats your name again?" with a grin on my face. Then the girl usually says "You asshole. You forgot my name?" with a smile (obviously being sarcastic). this happened so many times, its almost 100% the girl is not going to be actually pissed at me. I feel that remembering a girls name especially after only knowing them for a few hours is kinda investing too much. But that is just me. Id love to hear your opinion on this.

[–]a_desert_creature0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link