My ex of 10 months got hooked on opiates. Did some messed up stuff. She loved me. We had chemistry, awesome sex, etc... but she loved the opiates more.
I went no contact on her in January. She hit me up exactly two weeks after. Asking how I was, if we could be friends, etc.
I say no, obviously. I am not going to be your emotional tampon. Haven't talked to her in a month.
Nearly a month later, she hit me up again today, saying she was sincerely sorry. Said that she got some voicemail from me. Turns out it was a voicemail from New Years Eve. Stupidly, I responded... and during the conversation she admitted using opiates (oxy) - I had told her I already knew in my initial reply text. That being said, this is actually a big step for her. She said she didn't want to lose me due to drugs. She also sent me a picture of her journal, and told me I was the only thing that kept her from suicide. I told her these tactics weren't going to get her back in my life.
At this point, I've kept the power in the conversation. She is trying hard to meet up with me. Doing whatever she can to get some sort of meeting. I assume she thinks I will break and tell her I love you, forgive you, it's OK, then she can stop feeling like the piece of shit she is.
I want to meet up with her eventually. This is very immature. But I want to just keep my composure and end this on a high note, where she feels like shit, and regrets it even more. Am I making a serious mistake? Is this achievable?
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