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[–]Contango6969 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don’t think that’s abnormal or there is anything wrong with you. Fucking is a lot harder than kissing. My my number of kisses in incalculable. But body county is very calculable.
But yeah if I could point to something it could be that you get validation and base your self esteem on feedback from women. So that kissing is satisfying enough positive feedback that you are just satisfied with it.
I’m kind of the same way. Knowing I could fuck a girl if I wanted to is almost as good as fucking her. It’s not necessarily a big problem. You avoid a lot of problems by not fucking 100 girls lol but ideally you want your self esteem to not be subject to women’s opinions.
[–]kettlebell_workout 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most likely you haven't build enough comfort. That is, rushing too fast.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
In my opinion, turning women on in the bar/club is the wrong tactic. You need to be patient. Instead of rushing to no, take your time to yes. Be a bit more mysterious and hard to get.
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[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, instead of making out in a bar or at a party, tell a girl, hey let's take a walk, I want to breathe some fresh air. Then when you are outside and it's a beautiful night with stars, you can stop and kiss her. This way she will think it was meant to be and the stars aligned. Every other guy is trying to make out with her in the bar and make her look like a slut in front of everybody.
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