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BIN-BON · 2022-08-04T16:25:55+00:00

I believe that flirting is a form of play for adults, and flirting should be more focused on "fun" than rather just getting into someone's pants, or getting as many numbers as possible. (Though that does feel pretty good.) No one can tell you how you flirt, in the same way that no one can tell you how to have fun, or give you an optimal strategy to play pretend. Your sense of fun and flirting is unique to you.

For example, I prefer to flirt very overtly. When I like you, you'll know it. I ham it up pretty hard, and use a lot of body language and goofy compliments. I try my best to endear people to me. It works... okay-ish. But most of all, it's fun, and works for me. God knows, it won't work for everyone, and I even find myself schlocky and insufferable sometimes.

It will be difficult for anyone to give you hard facts, because this is a non-answerable question, really. We could give you some lame strategies, tell you to buy her flowers, or act like some gigachad moron, but that will almost always feel stilted in your head, because it isn't you. You gotta develop your own way of flirting.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-08-04T13:03:16+00:00

Flirting is simply an attitude, how you talk and how you look at the girl is as simple as that. If you got the vibe right the words usually come naturally

wtwd · 2022-08-04T09:59:30+00:00

first get you total and free testosterone checked (not joking)

FriskySteve01 · 2022-08-04T09:37:13+00:00

This entire sub

2022-08-04T10:20:23+00:00

Search for "flirting" on your favourite bookstore.

I recommend the "The Flirting Bible".

But any book written by a woman will do.

laylafaisal · 2022-08-04T12:22:45+00:00

I would recommend to start by calling us women🤣. Someone saying females instantly makes them infinitely more unattractive.

But seriously, just show interest in them, both in terms of personality & physically. Specifics are out there on infinite websites, just make sure you ignore the ones that tell you to make people feel bad about themselves.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-04T14:59:40+00:00

Start by not calling them females and outing yourself as an incel.

leetcoder217 · 2022-08-04T14:14:19+00:00

Binge watch ross jeffries on YouTube

Iistendipshit · 2022-08-04T11:22:31+00:00

Well your dad made you, your grandpa made your dad, they didn't have internet... idk maybe there is a guide passed on in your family tree your dad hasn't given you yet

2022-08-04T10:40:13+00:00

Just watch a romantic movie, a lot of free material there. Just emulate the lead guy.

WANKINGACCOUNT69 · 2022-08-04T14:10:25+00:00

Reading Models by Mark Manson really helped me define and understand what flirting is. I would definitely recommend giving it a read.

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