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Once a cheat always or no?
[–]may-begin-now 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most who cheat are not seeking the setting down type of life but more like the thrill of a new exciting experience.
[–]No_Load_7183 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah thats usually been the case for me and I would put mistrust in anyone who would cheat, especially ESPECIALLY in a loving relationship. If they'll fuck over someone who is supposed to be the nearest and dearest to them will they fuck you over too? Nobody is perfect, i am not perfect, but integrity makes you who you are and if your word isnt good then you aint got shit. Not only that, I do believe the "if they did it once they'll do it again thing" based on what I just said. They have faced the decision of absolutely screwing someone over in one of the most horrible of ways and they accepted themselves doing it for their own generally short term gain. I wouldn't trust that motherfucker as far as I could throw them in any facet after that unless it's some extreme circumstances.
[–]TyDollaz_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
As a man, we are natural born hunters. We were bred that way. It's in our DNA. We crave the thrill of the hunt. However, it can be controlled. Once a cheater NOT always a cheater. Just have to train yourself. You can have her in your scope, just learn to not pull the trigger. Look at the menu, but dont order anything to eat.
[–]Stujitsu2[S] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am talking about women
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's an unforgivable act, but I don't like absolutes. She just wouldn't be my girlfriend, ever.
[–]comeonmanpod 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]thorwawy88888 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cheat on her If she ever finds out hit her with the “ but bae you cheated on your ex right? But you told me you regret it so much you already know how I feel I guess I just thought that you would also cheat on me and got scared to put all my trust in you so I cheated first I wish you never told me about you ex I don’t even know if I can ever trust you a 100% cause all I think about is how you could cheat on your ex like if you could do it to him why not to me? I will try to trust you but even the smallest thing ever happens it’s over you understand?”
[–]TheTruth221 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
yeah u aint nothing special to her just another cock to her
keep the game rolling
[–]Stujitsu2[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So say you meet new chick and things seemed good but yiu found out she cheated on her ex what would you do?
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd think it's just a matter of time before she does that to me. She might be really in to me at first, so she's not going to stray, but any sign of it going south, I would break it off. And actually, to be fair, I don't really expect her to be like "oh, I'll only stay with you...." But at least communicate when it's through.
[–]TheTruth221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
be cautious and not catch feeling so easily
[–]Stujitsu2[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude...truth! Don't give a woman even one little piece of your heart
[–]runaround_fruitcop 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Anyone who cheats is not good in my books.
A relationship is two (or more) people engaging in a set of rules based on what's supposed to be love and trust and loyalty.
If you would ruin a lifetime with a person for 30 minutes of just sex then relationships, trust, loyalty and respect don't matter to you.
Men and women who can't grasp respect are people who cheat.
If you can't respect your partner enough to have a conversation about certain needs, emotional or physical, then that's an issue that needs repairing and fixing.
I wouldn't date a person who has cheated, but I do think people CAN get help especially if they acknowledged the problem and worked on it and are fully aware of their issues
[–]runaround_fruitcop 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would also question a person's relationship with their friends and family too.
If they are willing to do something they AGREED would end a relationship, what do they do behind their friends and family's backs?
A lot of cheaters (who are habitual) tend to be shitty friends, sons/daughters, siblings, roommates, etc, because trust and respect doesn't matter because what matters to them is their instant gratifications and not long term meaningful relationships (platonic, familiar, and romantic and sexual)
With cheating also comes with risks of deadly disease, stds, herpes and other things harmful to the partner.
It endangers not only the health of the relationship but the physical health of the partner.
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