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[–]ATLBornNRaised 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound like you are putty a ton of pressure on yourself and this situation. I’m sure you are a great person and this guy sees that in you. Whatever you do (initiate or not) I hope it works out for you.
[–]nevertextgoodnight 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Curious, are you two exclusive? Typically from my experience as a male, I will always wait for a girl to text me first and I'll reach out around 10 days if I don't hear from her. But ask yourself this: do you want to actually set a date or do you just want him to text you so you got that validation? Cause if you're not trying to see him then don't text. But if you know he's going to set a date and you want to see him then hit him up
If he's not responsive after this volley of communication I'd pull back and then let him pursue you for the next initiation.
But bottom line if you're not exclusive, and you guys aren't sleeping together he will prob start to look for something else as well...
[–]-Progress-4521 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We aren’t exclusive yet it’s only been 5 weeks. But also we’ve been on dates so I want to go on another
[–]nevertextgoodnight 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cool then send a snap and wait to hear from him
[–]_Principe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He (almost) always initiates going out. You (almost) always initiate chatting. Now you feel like it’s his turn to initiate chatting. Who knows - maybe he feels like it’s your turn to initiate going out, and he’s playing it cool to see if you will. If it were me, I’d just take the initiative. Make some plans with him, and take it from there.
Oh, and you really should consider having sex. No sense wasting any more time if it turns out you are not compatible. Besides, although I’m sure he doesn’t JUST wants to get in your pants, I guarantee you he most definitely wants to get in your pants. However respectfully he is behaving, he may well be getting a bit impatient seeing as you’re five weeks and (by the sound of it) quite a few dates in.
[–]Extra-Pipe2658 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I disagree with this. Don’t have sex with him if you’re not 100 percent comfortable with the situation. You will never gain a man’s respect or commitment by simply sleeping with him. You’ll only regret it afterwards if it doesn’t go your way
[–]-Progress-4521 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I want to wait until we’re exclusive and he respects that
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