I'm in my twenties. Never kissed or fucked. A lot of the time I don't feel the lack of girls in my life. Sometimes I feel a strong desire for women I see at the gym and other places, but it's easier just to let go.

Part of me wants to live my life to the fullest regarding the subject, another part thinks seduction is gonna be just an ability that I will master, and then it won't matter after all. However, it's likely that I am missing out a lot in life, and maybe the discomfort I will pass through in the present will be rewarded in the future, so maybe I will be happy for have chosen this path.

I have done some approaches to get used to the habit of approaching, like asking for opinions, complimenting women, etc, with some hesitation. I do not feel like giving up because there's some innate desire that makes me continue trying, but I would like to know some of your thoughts on the subject. Also, I may be stagnated or just too impatient. Thank you in advance.