I rarely if ever post on Instagram, but last weekend I did. It’s was a short story but featured me doing social, high-value things.

Then suddenly a girl that has stopped replying to me is back, apologising for not replying and coming up with a lame excuse. Since I know she saw the story it seems impossible that her reappearance is unrelated.

She’s not the point of this post though. It was just a really good reminder that although I kind of hate social media and Instagram, it is a massively powerful tool when it comes to all forms of dating.

A key strategy has always been to display a high-value lifestyle, and it’s hard to beat Instagram for that when used well. A post and a story a week is a new goal of mine.