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[–]may-begin-now -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Turn shoulder to her not lookingather(non aggressivebody language) ......."OH good!!, you are not one of those easy girls that talks with just any random guy for attention " ...." I certainly respect that" ......" nice to see someone still has self respect in this world ".....(silence treatment)
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
You take it seriously because you don’t realise that this is all a facade and a game.
Those things the girls do aren’t personal for her they are just a way to get rid of losers who don’t feel confident in themselves.
If you feel bad then they did their job to weed you out. But it’s a choice to feel bad. You can just go with the mentality of “i know you are, but what am i?” to not take it personal, and once you pass that test, it will be easy.
It’s just a test to get rid of losers who take themselves too seriously. A guy who doesn’t take seriously will easily pass the test.
[–]throws747 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry I’m not sure I understand…. Are you saying I should continue talking to them as if they aren’t ignoring me? That seems counterintuitive, but I think I understand the defence mechanism you’re explaining. I just don’t want to come off as needy, pushy, or creepy. It seems like a terrible choice on her end and it can pan out much worse for me if I read the situation incorrectly.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The problem is when you talk to them or approach them as if you are expecting to be rejected, as if you expect a bad reaction. This makes you act defensive, and kills your charm.
you should be acting playful, be energetic, loud, and outgoing no matter how much the girl is frowning.
What you feel they feel.
If you feel like you are bothering them, then you will act in a way that will bother them.
If you feel you are making their day and you behave extrovert with them, you will act far more fun and outgoing and they will appreciate your good vibe.
It’s all about how your vibe you choose to have. If you act like you need to be careful or like you need to walk on eggshells then your behaviour will be creepy no matter what.
If you act like you are sure they like you confident, chilled, smiling, fun, high energy then they will respond positively even if they were looking badly at you at first
[–]appmanga 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t look your way, barely even acknowledges your existence. Or even worse when they look at you and shoot you a almost disturbed face. I know the answer here is just don’t give a fuck, but honestly every time it happens it throws me off my game for like 10-20mins. It’s hard for me not to take it personally.
Why? She obviously doesn't know you, and it's one interaction in a lifetime that's going to filled with such things. She, and no one else, owes you civility or courtesy. Stop giving people who have no reason to have it power over you.
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They don’t owe you kindness
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