Date report: Went on date -> passionate kiss -> neither home nor second date. Please help me understand

life_long_learnerabc · 2022-06-26T06:56:28+00:00

How do I stop falling in love?

Try to project less. Men tend to assume, women have all the qualities they desire, just because tgey find them hot. But truth is, you don't know her, you know almost nothing about her. If you fall in love early, you fall in love with your own fantasy, not with her. Also, falling in love early communicates neediness. By making her so important to you that soon, you communicate low value. Spend more time with attractive women and you will develop "immunity".

Is swollen lips are problem? to come out as harsh?

Probably not, if the passionate kissing was authentic in the moment.

The reason, I tried to ask for test is to show that I am responsible person, did I do it wrong? When should I bring it up?

Imho most people will not bring it up at all, until they decide to stop using condoms, after they have gotten to know each other better. after some time

Also what did I do wrong according to you?

There is not always a real reason, why a women "does not want to continue". Why did you stop watching that one netflix series? The ending of season three would have gotten so exciting ... If she is an attractive woman, she has other options, just like you can easily watch other series and movies.

You probably came off needy though. E.g. "I don't want sex, I want romance" could have put her under pressure romantically. You don't know her! Therefore you don't know, whether you are romantically interested or not.

I don't know please help? How to proceed to her/my house, without make her feel "sl*ty" I think that's my mistake, should have pressed for sex during second kiss?

You could have just invited her to some innocent activity at your place without forcing anything. I don't think it was a good idea to verbalise sex and romance at such an early stage ...

Title	Date report: Went on date -> passionate kiss -> neither home nor second date. Please help me understand
Author	life_long_learnerabc
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	June 26, 2022 5:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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