What are some ways to come across as less intimidating towards girls? I can tell when a girl is giving IOIs and moving around my space but rarely do I run into a girl who can maintain eye contact with me and tbh it’s a big turn off for me and I tend not to approach if she can’t look at me and smile. Friends have commented that I’m mysterious and I have high standards but even if a 6-7 is talkative and seems approachable I’ll give it a go- although it’s like the hotter she is- the more reserved she is, I assume because it’s the “looks can fade” thought. More attractive girls obv get approached more so in a general way, they think just looking good and burying their face in their phone and guys will come up and spit game but personality is important to me instead of a dull hot chick. Am I overthinking or is this something I just have to deal with and work through the aloof (but not really) attractive girl that wants me to approach her?