Always go after what you’re attracted to and never settle for less. But also have standards.

Royal_Habit_5286 · 2022-06-20T19:40:05+00:00

When your unattractive you don't really get a choice in the matter

Visual-Guide5473 · 2022-06-20T19:27:47+00:00

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dheidjdedidbe · 2022-06-21T01:52:09+00:00

Ok what if none of those girls I am attracted to and meet my standards are attracted to me or like me?

And I don’t have unrealistic standards since I personally meet all of them myself.

2022-06-21T13:09:36+00:00

I see what you’re saying in theory, but here’s why I think it’s flawed: the data and the math and the stats just simply don’t align with what you’re saying; if you’re in the top 10% of men, then sure, go after everything that you’re attracted to and never settle, because you simply don’t have to as you have the looks, resources (and most likely some game, charisma and charm- and again, lots of money)… However, if you’re like most men and in the bottom 80% of men, the unfortunate reality is is that you’re gonna have to settle to some degree – I don’t mean go for somebody that you don’t find attractive at all, but there’s gonna be certain factors that you’ll have to weigh and this may sacrifice the attraction factor i.e., is she a good person, does she have a good personality, is she trustworthy, can she cook can she clean, does she provide a long-term future and a viable foundation for children (assuming a guy wants children, of course).

I promise you, gentlemen, if you’re going after these chicks that are “super hot,“ and your “not settling,“ then you’re gonna get wrecked and burned, and most likely end up alone- a bitter old curmudgeon… and the unfortunate reality is this is going to happen to a lot of you. Attractiveness really isn’t everything, you have to live with this person for the rest of your life and at a certain point looks fade, father time is undefeated. You’ve been warned.

Title	Always go after what you’re attracted to and never settle for less. But also have standards.
Author	Visual-Guide5473
Upvotes	21
Comments	10
Date	June 20, 2022 7:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vgtkpz/always_go_after_what_youre_attracted_to_and_never/
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