I (M23) Invited a girl (F23) I like to my party, how and when do I talk to her

mjornir · 2022-06-17T23:37:44+00:00

Just talk to her whenever you’re compelled to. If y’all have chemistry the convo will flow naturally if you tease and joke a little. Don’t overthink it, just fly by the seat of your pants

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-17T23:53:31+00:00

You forget about all this overthinking and these questions and focus on the following things.

1)Have fun and talk to EVERYONE, girl or guy doesn't matter. Ask people how they know each other, ask about what they do for fun, talk about your hobbies, sports, music, shows or events, trips coming up, any funny stories during the pandemic etc. Avoid boring questions. Play drinking games. Give people shit and then laugh and say you were just kidding and let's go get a drink. Talk to people for 5-10 mins at a time and move around and mingle.

2) You treat her like everyone else at the party and continue with point 1, BUT you must escalate with her. Make sure you avoid clinging to her all party. Introduce her to other people, get a drink, make your rounds talking to others and then come back and talk to her every now and then. When you do talk to her, you must escalate. You maintain more eye contact, you stand closer to make body contact, you establish open body language and escalate your touching. Review the dicarlo esclation ladder if you don't know how to escalate. At a high point in the interaction, when she's laughing with you or you embrace over a joke, put your hand on her neck and pull her in for a kiss. She either rejects it or accepts it.

If she rejects, but giggles nervously and is clearly into it, but perhaps just shy or doesnt want to be slut shamed, then you just pretend like nothing happened and carry on. Perhaps move locations to another room and try kissing her again later.

If she accepts, then enjoy it and pull away to end the kiss and continue vibing. Continue up the escalation ladder and at some point ask if she wants to get out of there.

If she rejects, and is clearly not into you then you pretend like nothing happened and carry on and continue with point 1 and enjoy the party.

3) Do NOT talk about relationships or how you like her etc. Don't tell her, show her.

Hipposnort · 2022-06-18T02:02:22+00:00

enjoy the party, talk to everyone, and talk to everyone equally. Don't put her above anyone else, and be there to have a good time with no strings attached to anyone. Don't try to gas her up with compliments, she already knows you like her. Don't talk about relationship shit. Just show up, have fun, hang out, and if it comes down to it, make out with her. Leave an impression that you can live with or without her around. Dudes try too hard at first, and we've been brainwashed to be the nice guy, and follow some courtship routine. Don't do that, and don't over talk about yourself. Ask her questions, stay mysterious. Also, if things go well, switch over to just seeing her in person with no one else around, Do that with dates until you become exclusive (if that happens). Just keep showing up, and don't talk to her about the relationships. she will when it's time. Leave that in her hands. I just went on a date with a girl and she was asking a lot of questions. We really hit it off, but I think it may be a ghost story because she got all the info she wanted in one date, and I think it caused her to lose interest. We'll see. Here to try and help, since I'm learning the steps.

Title	I (M23) Invited a girl (F23) I like to my party, how and when do I talk to her
Author	Longjumping-Run-7659
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Date	June 17, 2022 10:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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