Pretty girl at the gym I train at and I need advice

tweedsmuir001 · 2022-06-17T07:59:06+00:00

You need to go to talk or she’s going to lose interest. Literally just ask what her name is, about martial arts, for some help with martial arts. Don’t try to impress her, just talk to her like you would meeting a normal new person - it’s not going to be perfect but it could be pretty sweet.

Rules: deep voice, eye contact, smile. Not way deep, just not breaking pitch with nervousness. Don’t lock eyes forever, but don’t be afraid to keep a bit of eye contact close up or at a distance. For 10 seconds for so - and then smile. See how it’s cuter than hiding your face. Don’t just turn away. Trust me, what’s the worst she can do, eat you?

That’s it. And smile, be outgoing, pretend internally that you know she likes you. Because right now, she does. But do not waste time on this. You need to put this into action next time you see her. Think from her perspective - cool guy who’s interesting. What will happen? You don’t want that to turn into oh, he was too shy.

Don’t be shy about telling her about your hobbies and asking her hers. If you’re at a loss of what to say, literally make the conversation about her or just politely end on a good note.

Have fun ;)

2022-06-17T10:54:31+00:00

She knows you're staring and it's getting weird now because you haven't said anything to her.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-17T11:02:00+00:00

A man will have his bones broken in martial arts matches, will go to war and have his legs blown out, will climb Everest and almost die due to lack of oxygen, but go and talk to a girl? Oh, no, no, no. There is no scarier thing than that.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-17T12:04:06+00:00

The more you keep staring the more weird and uncomfortable it all feels. Being shy with women isn’t good, and they can smell your insecurity a mile away.

They like daring guys, they like bold guys, they like guys who have balls, and just go for what they want. Guys who do things without thinking, impulsive guys.

you are acting the whole opposite, and the more you overthink the more off putting because even if you think they probably can’t tell, they do.

Sorry, but women don’t tolerate weak guys, and you are acting weak. If you see a girl you like you have to approach her immediately and forget about the outcome. It doesn’t matter if she is with her parents or friends or whatever…

You just do it as soon as they see you, you cannot look away, because again that works against you. You have to hold eye contact and approach immediately in less than 3 seconds.

If you keep doing that thing: “looking away when she looks at you” the less your chances of success will be if you finally end up approaching her. Because you have given her plenty of time to show her that you are too much of a pussy at best or a creep at worst.

Shyness kills attraction.

Overthinking kills attraction.

Overanalysing kills attraction.

Hesitation kills attraction.

And lastly, trying to impress or show off in front of her is counterproductive. Girls know what guys do, they know you are showing off. And it’s not appreciated. Girls don’t like you because you can do martial arts, they like you when there is chemistry between you and her and can make her feel positive emotions.

Impressing a girl is try hard behaviour which doesn’t get you laid.

Title	Pretty girl at the gym I train at and I need advice
Author	justarandomguy562
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	June 17, 2022 7:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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