I am always having a problem in my mind keeping that line between normal and needy. For example:

I had sex with a girl one month ago and ever since then, we were talking through Instagram because she currently lives in another city... We had a fair talk and she visits my city fairly often. Four days ago she read my message and she never responded back. Yesterday I saw from her Instagram stories that she is in my city again but she didn't even message me... Should I text her again or this would make me seem needy? I really liked her and I would love to get to know her better.