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[–]revente 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's your call.
Personally, I'd probably pursue but make much less effort. And date some other girls in the meantime.
[–]tearyeyess 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s only been 2 and a half weeks? At least give it a month before you stay asking
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Jesus. Make a move already bro. You have to set the rules of engagement early on and tell her that "you are not that type of guy". By that I mean the type of guy who will take a woman on dates, audition for her and try to impress her so she gives him a chance and rewards him with sex 3 months down the line. You have to make it painfully clear that you are not there to be her boyfriend, sponsor, sugar daddy, orbiter, guy who takes her to champagne bars and pays for all of it and gets a kiss on the cheek. It's up to you bro, but I'm afraid you have already set the frame of "I'm going to chase you and invite you to dates and be a good lap dog until I get into your pants".
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[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Tell her you have a rule where if you are not sleeping with a woman by the fourth date, you can't go out with her anymore.
[–]Codi_Banks 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do women respond to ultimatums like this?
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not necessarily, but the ultimatum is really more for you so you don't waste your time and start chasing pussy. Ideally you should tell her your rules up front which is the right thing to do. She can choose to play by them or not and then you wouldn't have wasted all this time. But the other thing about having rules and stating them upfront is that women actually respect you more and end up even more attracted.
[–]Codi_Banks 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You remind me of Patrice O'Neal lol. Specifically these 2 videos
https://youtu.be/E94VlFmqJko
https://youtu.be/GWgVtYllJtg
Seems like a very blunt way to tell a woman what you want but maybe its all in how you say it.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men need to first of all know what they want and what they are about and second, they should communicate this to women. I wasted so many years trying to play a charade and pretend that I wasn't interested in getting into a woman's pants when I actually was or trying to play the dating game which is really playing by womens rules and this supplicating to them. There is nothing attractive about being a provider who will take women on endless dates, audition for them and try to behave like a good boy so she lets him smell her pussy. You need to establish that you are in complete control from the get go and stay in control the entire time. Taking a woman out 5 times and not even smelling her pussy is playing by her rules. She knows you want that pussy real bad and she can manipulate you anyway she wants, which of course makes you that much less of a challenge.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's more about gradual progress than speedrun. You should definitely keep making moves to shatter more of your barriers, or emotions will drop and she will stop investing energy in this relation.
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