I think something that is very refreshing is to think clearly about ones own goals, and also to discuss with friends or other people online to be able to clarify ones own ideas.
I just wanted to take a moment to start a healthy and happy discussion about what everyone reading this wants from women.
A lot of men don't even think about this or consider it seriously. It's probably the most important aspect of meeting women because I've found that once I clarify something in terms of women it happens in my life 1-2 weeks later or in a short time period. It is as though the brain knows what to focus on in the moment and stretches' out and reaches for it in a subconscious way.
For me I'm really busy with work right now and life, and so I'm only interested in spending time with women that I find very attractive and I have high chemistry with right off the bat. That's what I've been doing for the last 1.5 months and It's been real nice.
I change numbers and talk to a lot of different girls, but I only go on a date if think we're a good match. The other girls I ignore. This has freed up my schedule a lot because I used to be on 2-3 dates a week whereof I actually really genuinely liked maybe 1 of them.
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