Hey. In college, 20 yrs she is 21.

I've been in an ltr for 8 mos. I lift for around 7 mos. She was an fwb for around 5 mos. We have sex daily or more. She occasionally cooks and she generally pays for dates.

I do not give her a lot of validation or comfort and she bitches about this a lot.

Issue of note:

She recently went by a guys apartment at midnight, drank and talked about 'his relationship problems', played idgaf, later on it came up through trickle truth that she was being 'relatable' and talked about problems with our relationship.

So ofc I also learn from her recently that one night he sneaked into her room after I left like 3 am( she too lazy to move after I fuck her) while he 'was drunk' and she was under her blankets ass naked. Apparently she snuck on her clothes under the covers, meanwhile he suggested they have a secret affair. Apparently she rejected him and sent him out, and has cut contact.

I think my girl is very dumb for getting in this situation and I know she wants validation. She has also stated she would get with him if she was single and that he is 'very cute'. Is any of this nefarious or demotable? Thoughts and opinions? Is he just an orbited she was trying to use?

Confident she did nothing but that might have been just due to his lack of swagger.

She did not outright tell me any of this (her friends always tell her to keep it on the dl) I just peg her a lot and she lets these things slip.