Being direct on Tinder?

Heavy_Plow · 2022-05-02T13:39:21+00:00

You can see further details in my post on this subreddit, but I think the best strategy is to ask them out on a date with the first message. Being so vulgar as to ask them whether they want to fuck with the first message will get you nowhere, but you'll be surprised by how many women are receptive to skipping texting and going on a date.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-05-02T13:05:56+00:00

I just try to setup a date for drinks in around 4-5 massages. From personal experience, most women who agree to get drinks will also agree to come back and watch a movie later. Plus, getting drinks first beforehand will allow you to vet them and make sure they’re not crazy.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-05-02T13:13:43+00:00

Most women want to see you put in some labor and time before they want to have sex with you. So if you try to rush the process or become more direct, you will lose a lot of girls on the way.

So it's a trade-off. The more direct you are, the more women will bow out. But those women who respond well will usually be more down.

I find it's easier to find out if a girl wants to bang by asking her to meet at around 6PM on a Friday or Saturday night. That is already a subtle cue for hooking up. At least compared to a lunch date at noon on a Wednesday or Sunday. But it's of course quite subtle and you can never assume it's a done deal. Another way is to talk about sex or tell her you find her outfit sexy. If she's accepting of that kind of talk then usually it's a good sign.

MackAttackATO69 · 2022-05-02T13:14:07+00:00

I think this is more appropriate on tinder than on some of the other sites. As a woman I have seen both they people that are there both for a quick time and those for a long time. I think what you put in your profile might help make the match you get better suit for you.

I think just be straight is what you are looking for. I tend to want to meet up sooner rather than later as I’m not looking for a penpal. I have had dick pics sent to me as an opener (this doesn’t really work for me, but maybe it does for some), people who want to meet right at the moment you match, or people you want to set up a date but also say if it goes well my house is free tonight.

Do you. That’s what the app is for. If you shoot your shot and it misses, you really aren’t losing out on anything. Dating can be exhausting.

starlord5576299476 · 2022-05-03T02:40:13+00:00

Girls usually prefer someone being upfront about it. Pay them a compliment, ask about their day and then basically say that you want to meet up if they're down, grab some food and then head back to your place. Let them feel you out for a bit on tinder, exchange socials and the more you vibe the more likely to get it on.

Just don't put "hookups only" in you're bio, that's an immediate swipe left for most of us girls

Good luck!.

Title	Being direct on Tinder?
Author	TheFifthEspada679
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	May 2, 2022 1:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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