I post in here a lot but I want to bring up something that maybe a lot of people don’t notice or talk about. For that past 7 months I’ve been trying to better my game talking with/attracting women which is something I’ve always struggled with. I’ve learned a lot and tried everything from nightclubs,bars, dating apps and all that… I have my good days and bad days but I still struggle a lot. The next step I want to take is cold approaching (mainly just to work on approach anxiety) but I am mentally exhausted. I am at the point where I am just mentally tired and not motivated at all. This used to be fun and exciting but now I don’t even look forward to it. It has gotten to the point where I just expect disappointment and that women avoid me like the plague which just kills my confidence. Ik it’s the wrong mindset to have and there are things I need to work on but I just don’t think it’s mentally worth it. I want to take a break but at the same time I’m young and I won’t be young forever so I’d rather go through this now rather than later. Has anyone else gotten to this point? If so what did you do?
PS I have a life outside of just talking to women (ie I’ve been killing in the gym and crushing it at my job) I’m just mentally exhausted with my sex/love life
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