Why do I feel invisible to women but a catch to gay people?

AceCoE · 2022-05-01T05:05:09+00:00

IMO gay men are simply just more direct and daring with their interest. I've been lifting consistently for a while - recently I've met a few who pretty quickly after meeting them would comment on my body. Women are rarely going to be that forward, especially really hot and arrogant women who have an ego or just higher standards. When it comes to just surface level attention, those types of girls show very few men attention. In my experience, they'll usually avert eye contact or act indifferent because I don't match the look their ideal guy, usually tall and good looking.

But not all hot women have that kind of shallowness or arrogance. Met plenty who are just as beautiful but are more warm or interested.

xMistahxJayx · 2022-05-01T02:57:06+00:00

You’re either masculine or come off as such or good looking. Gay men is blurred because some gay guys will go for anything like how straight guys will go for almost any women. It’s a good sign nonetheless you’re probably oblivious to iois women give you. Anyways approach women talk to them don’t be a pussy easy solution

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-01T03:00:49+00:00

The good news is that your physical looks are appealing because gay men want to bang hot guys. The bad news is that looks don't matter as much to women, so you are not having the same effect on them.

For women, work on yourself esteem and overall vibe. You want to feel good about yourself and feel like a hot commodity that has a lot to offer women. As for your vibe, think of yourself as a guy who has such an abundance of women in his life that he doesn't have to approach or hit on women. Ironically, women will be drawn to that because they figure out if a guy has to try to get them it means that he doesn't have other women in his life. And the guys who don't have to get them or even try to impress them, are automatically attractive .

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-01T03:44:33+00:00

Don't take this the wrong way but if you're more passive and quiet (feminine) of course gay dudes will be attracted to that because they're acting like men attracted to that energy just how straight guys will like a shy girl

Title	Why do I feel invisible to women but a catch to gay people?
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Date	May 1, 2022 2:25 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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