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[–]Throwaway1010069 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She probably got 9 new matches in the time since you matched with her.
[–]themannnn223 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro she not on tinder we met on Instagram
[–]Throwaway1010069 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My point still the same. She has a lot of options and you have failed to set yourself apart. Sorry.
[–]themannnn223 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do I set myself apart. I literally tried, we related with the same things, she seemed interested she asked me questions, I flirted a little had some jokes etc . My whole point was to separate myself from the other guys shooting they shot and etc, she answered me in the first place that’s always a good thing and us both interested in the convo felt like it was going right but then boom. I’m tired of this happening cuz I do everything I think I am doing right then catch the L.
[–]Throwaway1010069 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hear you, but it is so hard to be doing online dating in this era. People ghost people for the stupidest things. I don't have answers, only sympathy.
[–]nosepickergabe 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're not her priority, she's playing games. King don't stick around to win the stupid prize.
[–]More-Cat-9226 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Rejection happens
[–]More-Cat-9226 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bottom line is some women will be interested in you and some won’t it’s simply that. I understand where you’re coming from trying to get some results. I would not tie how you feel about yourself to interactions with females good or bad that makes you look insecure and I’m sure they can see that.
[–]themannnn223 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Why did she have to like it tho? Why not just leave me on read? I asked for her # since she seemed interested and we were having convos the whole day till the next day then I just get curved :/
[–]More-Cat-9226 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It happens dude just brush it off there’s billions other chicks out there. The amount of time that you put into this post you could have been chatting some chick up on an app or at the bar approaching girls just my two cents. I would never get hung up on some chick you talked to for a day. Your time is more valuable than that and your attention.
Yea and I do that too, and I just hate how I know I could get better results. I alr did chat it up with a girl after this happened and that girl too hasn’t answered my messages in about 6 hrs now. I’m not here complaining that I can’t get any girls bc that’s not the case, it’s just me knowing my potential and just me not understanding wtf I’m doing wrong bro ngl it’s alr got me up to here, if u want more info on me to help me I’ll appreciate a pm so much if u wanna see how I talk look etc to judge if I’m even worth an attractive girls attention. But with this just summed up everything, I hate dming girls on insta and not getting a response, not getting followed back etc, I look at myself and be like damn I’m not as attractive then as ppl say. Same goes in tinder, I’ve had luck ofc going up to girls but still not the results I want man. I’m just tired and I want to succeed more, cuz Ik I can.
[–]ZepperV2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You didn’t do anything wrong. She just didn’t like you. If you keep this shit on you’ll ruin your vibe and you’ll be hella repulsive
[–]Flames57 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
women like orbiters
[–]ChicknStripz 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Girls flirt over DMs when they’re bored. She never wanted anything serious.
[–]themannnn223 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She wasn’t even flirting Iike that, she seemed genuinely interested in the convo but ig I either botched it and messed it up or she jus don’t wanna fw me at all
[–]TheDimLighter 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a similar situation, dm’d, texted back n forth, asked for her number, got it, texted on imsg, asked out on a date and got friend zoned
[–]TimFTWin 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She got what she wanted out of the interaction. You didn’t get what you wanted so recognize it, accept it and go start another interaction to get what you want.
She’s got you thinking of her while she’s off doing something or someone different. Unless unrequited feelings are what you’re looking for, move on.
[–]daring_innovator 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do not worry my friend. Girls are very fickle & their words will never match their actions. Anyway, as a general rule always have lots of options with women & NEVER focus on just one girl. Take it easy my friend just move on from this one she’s not high interest anyway. Replace her with the next one but have multiple options always.
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro, sometimes she might be seeing someone so asking for the number... she can't give it
[–]Accomplished_Egg_928 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some girls do no give out their number until days or sometimes weeks into messenging via DMs. Some don't even give their number out until after the first date if it went well. Too many guys out there just blow up a girls phone with texts and calls, they then have to block that number, only to find out same guy then calls and texts off a different number, so they then have to change their mobile numbeer. Rinse and repeat and it gets time consuming and annoying.
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