Title sums it up, but to add some context - one of the posts ( I think it was a very popular recent post) mentioned that your goal should be to be exciting, not interesting, and that made me wonder.

I genuinely cannot tell how I fit into those categories and where I would ‘rank’. If anything, higher than I would have 3 years ago or even 1 year ago, if not 6 months ago, but I didn’t put myself out there, so I’m still not really getting a whole lot of experience.

I’ve been hearing a lot of “would you date yourself?” type of advice, and this is where I’m unsure of what I can work on, especially when adding my other post into the equation (long term relationships and how to keep it exciting sometimes and not get bored).

Although this sounds narcissistic, I’m certain that I am above average, not a single doubt in that - something I would’ve never said a while back, but even though I know there’s work to be done, I’m certain that my efforts are paying off.

For reference I’m 21, 22 in a little over a month.

Appreciate the time you spent reading this, hopefully someone more experienced and knowledgeable can chime in :)