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So I have an overbite, my upper teeth are moved to the left, my lower teeth to the right by about 2mm. Plus I have a crown that creates an unnaturally white upper front tooth.

Correcting this costs 20,000 USD with veneers. Also, to fix my jaw, I'd need surgery according to 30% of those orthodontists who I talked to. Not only is it costly, but also very painful and I will also have screws in my jaw for life aswell as a high likelihood for nerve damage in my lips, ie numbness.

In short, it's a huge risk and cost.

On the other side why would I do it?

I don't like what it feels like and looks like, when stressed I downright resent it. Because I resent so much, I grind my teeth unconsciously and lose more tooth substance.

Now in seduction for men it's all about confidence, so it shouldn't be a reason to do it. But when I see all those cute girls on youtube who present their boyfriends, they do have perfect teeth. The worse the teeth the uglier the girlfriend.

Maybe in a world where most people do have perfect teeth, you can only be really confident, if you fit in regarding most of those properties as in muscle mass, teeth etc.

I just cannot "wait" for it to get better, it won't. But I also cannot cover the costs and could not forgive myself for having nerve damage and screws in my jaw and probably a lot of pain for finally the hot ones to actually care about me.

So yeah, what are your thoughts?

EDIT: Dentist told me I needed to fix all visible front teeth to make it look even.

Makes sense as they are all made from one mixture.

But is it even required? Doesn't it just look bad because it's one tooth, if both front teeth looked the same, wouldn't that be an improvement?

I just noticed that all those questions could be answered if women I cared about gave useful feedback....