Need advice. On talking terms with a single mom. Sends cute messages and updates regarding her life to me.

rjones416 · 2022-04-19T17:37:18+00:00

single moms are the easiest women to bang from online dating. take her out, show her a good time then invite her over next time.

AloofusMaximus · 2022-04-19T18:43:54+00:00

You're already setting yourself up for failure/drama.

I like where this is going.

I have already mentioned that I just want to date casually, nothing serious.

These 2 lines are inconsistent with each other. You shouldn't be talking all day everyday to a woman you only intend to see casually.

What does casual look like to you?

You're acting like a boyfriend already in your communication, so you're going to end up hurting her for no good reason other than you suck at actually doing what you're planning on doing.

Now, as a novice, I could use some help and advice to escalate and close for a regular thing.

First off you need to actually have a date, or meet her in person.

Mr-Kabuki · 2022-04-19T16:50:55+00:00

What specifically do you need help with? You need help with going in the date?

Well she’s probably looking to make you a provider guy so it might be helpful to frame yourself as the kind of guy who is stable or could be stable, and opposed to a risk taking entrepreneurial type. Obviously don’t act so chode-like that all you are is a mule to her but keep in mind of what she’s looking for. If she sees zero future with you, there won’t be. And for there to be a future, she has to think you’d be a good provider, but you can’t come across like you want to be one.

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