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[–]saje1530 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can’t make anything of that. Don’t overthink.I have one rule. When i am not with a girl in person. I treat them like my other friends. I mostly text and call to make plans and occasional send something I find funny, flirt a little. Just don’t get insecure. That’s the goal. Quality over quantity.
[–]johker 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re not as special as you think and she has plenty of options. Sorry for the hard truth but the sooner you accept this, the better.
Instead of using your time camping at your phone and waiting for her to reply, level up and do shit to improve your future. I’m going to assume that since you asked this question, you’re giving off tons of needy vibes. Women can sense that a mile away.
She replies to you once a night? Good. Reply to here every other night because you are busy leveling up
[–]nevertextgoodnight 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a woman reaches out, you assume she wants to see you and you offer a date
My date last night resulted from one text of hers
Her: how was your meeting yesterday?
Me: I'd love to tell you over dinner, how's your evening look
Then we set a time and she came over. We didn't text anymore the whole day
That's it
If you're not going to ask her out then you prob shouldn't be texting her
[–]cass2769 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She might be busy. And some people just don’t like a ton of communication between dates.
I think the next date you have, you should let her coordinate details. Agree on a day and time and let her know you are “game for whatever she wants to do”
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