Hi everyone, I apologise in advance for my English. It’s not my first language! I’ve read a lot of topics here and I’m a big fan of “the game”. First of all, what Im about to say is 100% real, I wouldn’t have any reason to fake all of it, especially because Im not actually enjoying what is happening to me right now. I feel stupid and confused and didn’t close any opportunity (8+) because of that… Im 30y, average looking, short (5.6), work in sales, pretty good at talking but moody, so not very consistent.

I’ve never had many problems finding girls, but after a 4 years long relationships I decided I wanted to stay by myself for a while… I’ve soon realised that the world somehow has changed for worse for dating and I needed “an upgrade”. Got into the game for real 1 year ago, I’ve studied a lot, even wrote some notes that eventually would share with my friends. I had a great summer (for my standard) last year, closing 5 girls from may to October and I felt good! Until I realised I wasn’t very happy about my “standards”…. I mean 5 to 6. I took 2 of my best friends and decided that we will only chase 7+ level girls. Sometimes we eventually step down a bit for “avarage girls”.

Well… I suck. It looks like avarage girls don’t even see me, I found them over complicated and boring. They don’t know how to “play”, they tend to be sceptical from the first approach…

This year I decided that I don’t want to hit on every decent looking girls, but only girls I would date.

We use to be a bit scared of very hot girls, like we weren’t at their level, and this kind of mindset wouldn’t help me very much in my new goal… One night a was in a bar and there were 2 beautiful Swedish girls. They looked at me for like 1h. I was a bit surprised at first, took a drink and then went to talk with them: easiest game of my life. We ended up in a club (me and the two), had great fun and thank each other. I was like wooow, what the hell happened? How lucky I’ve been that night! The week later, after 2-3 avarage sets, me and my friends decided to just have drink by ourself. 2 Russian hot girls were two tables on the left, one of them stared at me for ever, in a way I felt uncomfortable… approached her, talked a bit… exchange contacts.. Tonight, happened again. Another extremely hot woman almost invited me to her table.

They were all taller than me, dressed nice but normally, not high heels and such.

I’m extremely confused, sceptical, and anxious about it because I’m missing something. I feel like it’s all in my head and I don’t really understand what is happening. Can someone help me to analyse and maybe understand what is going on?

Short story: I’m avarage, have problems with avarage girls. But apparently hot girls have some taste for me and I don’t understand why.