So i was dating a girl i met on Tinder for a whole week, things went really good, first date went to a restaurant for a dinner. Then the next 3 dates she invited me to her house (she currently lives with her mother because she moved out from her other place) and we basically spent those days playing videogames, cuddling, watching netflix and talking about life in general, yeah we kissed (just 2 times tho) and i could have had sex with her possibly but as im a shy man and because her mother was present i couldnt really make the move.
Ok, so things went horribly wrong after 5 dates, basically after eating together i brought her to her other place with my car because she had to grab some things (as shes moving from there) my car was parked literally at her doorstep and she knew, i thought she would take at least 10-15m so i texted her saying i was going to get some chewable gums from a shop nearby and that i would not take longer than 5 mins.
Now here comes the weird part, she apparently took only 5mins and she was already down there when i was gone, i told her i would be back asap but she apparently got mad and left me behind, so she literally went walking to her mothers house which was like 20mins away. I was frustrated because i could not understand why she did that, i asked her many times if she was mad but she insisted she was not, i called her and texted her, she didnt answer, i sent her voice audios telling her that now i understand why she never got a relationship with anyone and that i thought she was more mature, this is when things went really bad, apparently this offended her a lot so she dumped me, but just put yourselves in my position, i was frustrated and couldnt understand the situation, days before she did a similar thing, when i was on the way to her apartment she asked me if i could stay the whole day, i told her i could not because i already had plans with my friends, so she literally told me to cancel the date and that we would hang another time, hours later she texted me apologizing and she excused herself saying she was in a bad mood because she had an argument with someone (like why i have to pay for that?). So, was i the one to blame? or we both acted bad? i spent these last weeks trying to cope with it but i really cant understand why the relationship went so bad this fast when we really liked each other.
PS: I noticed she unmatched me on Tinder and thats when i knew things were over, so i texted her thanking her for the time we spent together and that it was a shame things ended like this, she answered some time later saying that it was also a pleasure but that i should learn how to control my impulses because i shouldnt say those things with someone i know just from 1 week, in part i agree, but like i would not say those things if she didnt act like a child.
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