Stats:

Age: 28

Race: Eastern Asian

Height: 5'7

Location: Las Vegas

Set:

  1. 2 British girls: I left the club after a unsuccessful night at around 2:30-3am. One of my wings pulled so I was like "fuck, I can't just give up". I opened these two girls sitting at the slot machines. There was a taller prettier one and that's who I was interested in. She was quite hot. Taller than me, great body. Let's call her Ashley and her friend Jessica. Basically, I chat with them for like 20 minutes platonically. Looking back, it was obvious she was interested because she kept facing me and looking back at me every time after a distraction. There were 2 other guys that tried to enter the set but she always "came back to me" attention wise.

After chatting for 20 minutes, we talked about weed which is illegal in the UK but legal in Vegas so I pulled them using weed. We went to a dispensary and after getting weed, I said lets go party at my apartment which was legit across the street from the dispensary but Jessica said we should go back closer to the strip. So it's 4am now, and I'm like shit, where's still open and lit? I was like "oh we can go to drai's after hours" Now at this point, I still haven't done anything physical with Ashley. It's been all verbals with both girls.

We parked at cromwell garage and pregamed in the car. We actually all had more fun drinking and talking in the car. Then we go inside and the casino is COMPLETELY dead. Drai's afterhours was CLOSED. I totally forgot. It was a fucking Tuesuday, of course they're closed. Fucking clown mode. Now it's about 5am so they were trying to go back to their hotel.

As I'm driving them back to their hotel, I placed my hand on Ashley's knee and she takes my hand and puts it on her private region (gotta keep it PG so my post don't get removed from certain subs). And I'm like oh shit, I didn't even know this girl was so down. So I'm fingering her and then she takes my fingers and starts sucking on them vigorously. We reach the hotel and I propose that we drop off her friend and her and I get food. Unfortunately, she said she can't and has to go.

Conclusion: Wow, I felt like such a huge fucking clown after this set. So many rookie mistakes, but dam, this set taught me so much. I'm going to try to elaborate on all my mistakes:

  1. Talking to these girls platonically for 20 minutes. So dumb. Since I'm so used to using physical escalation to gauge and calibrate, I didn't immediately calibrate that she was into me. But looking back now it was so obvious. This is one of the handicaps of exclusive nightclub game, you become too reliant on physical escalation. Your whole foundation of calibration is based on how well your physical escalation is going.
  2. After we got the weed, I was being such a beta simp. I was like "oh what yall tryna do now? Let's party at your hotel room...?". Like holy shit. What I was suppose to do was being more assertive and LEAD. After the dispensary, I should have been "OK WE ARE GOING TO MY APARTMENT, WE'RE GONNA KEEP PARTY LETS GO". Two reasons I didnt push harder to go to my apartment is because my roommate was sleeping and I wasn't even sure if this girl was DTF.
  3. I needed to be more entitled. This is a concept that /u/recursivepasta and I have discussed alot. Basically, I needed to have the mentality that it's expected for things to happen in the way that I want them to happen. For example, I should have just automatically pulled them to my apartment after the dispensary instead of being indecisive. It's kind of like confidence but not entirely the same. It's important to give off this "entitlement vibe" where you just assume and expect the people around you to do what you want.
  4. The entitlement aspect also comes into play when it comes to assuming attraction as well. I should have just assumed attraction even though I didn't have the physical gauges to calibrate for it. It's a very basic game principle where you have this mentality of "Yeah I'm fucking awesome of course she likes me". I would say entitlement is a concept that is beyond confidence and borders arrogance.
  5. Entitlement can be very selfish which is something I struggle with. I'm not a selfish person. I didn't want to pull to my apartment because my roommate was sleeping. A truly entitled person wouldn't have given a fuck. It's a delicate balance to have enough entitlement to be attractive but not too much to be an asshole.

Overall, I was definitely off my game when it came to this final set of the night. Could have been because I met them outside the club. Or it was 3am. Or I was tired. Who knows. What's important is that I learned alot from this set. Far more than the hundreds of sets prior to this one.