To start, I just want you to know a little bit about who you’re dealing with.

I am black myself, pretty dweeby, average height, but attractive enough to get female attention pretty consistently. I am described as pretty attractive but weird in an interesting way, but not a way that suits all environments.

This is not an insecurity expedition, I literally just don’t know where to start as clubs aren’t usually my scene. But I have been invited out by a handful of female friends to regularly go with them, and I want to know how I should be behaving, as well as how to interact with the people I will be dancing with and talking to, besides my female friends who I will already be immediately comfortable with.

That being said, I have so sense of style or anything, I will be building a lot of what I wear and what I do there from the ground up.

Even after I manage to dress appropriately for the club, after blending in a lot of the more cosmetic ways, physically and personality wise (from the things that I would talk about to the way I talk) I need you to take my word for it that I will stick out like a sore thumb, for several reasons.

I can dance, most of my experience is college get togethers and stuff, but interacting with true strangers now that I’m out of college (I am in my 20s) I don’t think I am going to know how to act.

I also know that the types of clubs they go to are very hot and heavy a lot of the time, which sounds fun, and I want to participate.

But I also know that I naturally am not they type of guy or even several types of guys to go to the club, who naturally have more in common with other club goers.

So what should I know before going. What are the basics, what should I do when separating from my friend group when walking in, what not to do, and what can I do to be attractive enough to get female attention in that environment?