Some example of activities you can do that women like: Dancing, playing music, gym, writing, sports, art, acting.

It's important to pick an activity you will genuinely enjoy, and do because you like it. If the main aim of doing it is to get women to like you, then you will run out of motivation, as well as give off a desperate vibe, which is unattractive. Women liking you for it is a bonus, not the purpose. The purpose of doing it is to improve yourself and be happy.

Not every women will like you for an activity, but you only need a few women to like you for it. Then you can gain confidence.

When I think back to my high school, the guys who were confident around women were normally the ones who were good at certain sports like soccer, tennis, etc. Some women liked them for it, and this gave them confidence around other women.

They did an activity that a few women liked them for. Which gave them confidence, as their brain then had evidence women liked them. They also genuinely enjoyed these activities.

So you need to find the right activity for you, then find people who like you for that.

Some places to go to meet women who will be attracted to your activity: Meet up groups, clubs for these activities, classes for these activities.

This isn't the only way to gain confidence, and it might not be for everyone.

If you like it use it, if not ignore it. For some people this post will be helpful. For others, it might be a waste of the last few minutes reading it, lol.

But regardless of your views, I hope you're happy and in a good place. :)