So recently this happened for the second time. I'm a F (25), and the other night things were getting hot, and... weh.. "performance anxiety". It's happened one other time before a year ago with someone else. The only connection I can make in why this would've happened is that I knew both of them for over 4 years before we ever hooked up. Maybe the anticipation was too grand and I was less than they expected, OR they were legitimately nervous to perform well. But I've gotta say I don't THINK I'm terrible in bed.. seems to go just fine with other first-time hookups that lead to more. So I'm just curious, wondering if people who get "PA" actually are anxious to do well or are really just not into the person as much as they thought they were.