Pretty much the title. How is it that some guys on here, say they flirt, tease, touch, and yet feel that they were led on, or have the girl tell them they are simply friends? I, for one, feel I know how I am around female friends and females I have a potential interest in. But I ask because some of these stories genuinely sound similar to mine and make me believe that perhaps mine can head down the same road. But, my prior experiences lead me to believe otherwise.

I would like some clarification on the game principles I support. I believe if the guys in question truly do as they say, then wouldn't the girl know his intention and somehow let him know whether she is interested or not? I do understand some girls have trouble rejecting, but the social cues are still there. I get that attention/validation can also be part of the girl's style, but if that's the case....why not move on? Probably because of mixed signals? Okay, then why not continue to flow the game and read the girl as they go?

Basically, I don't believe, or would rather not, that if a guy flirts, teases, compliments a girl, that while this can apply to both romantic interest and friends, the tone, delivery, body language, eye contact, sexual tension, and actual flirting/teasing "content" is what makes, or should make it clear for both individuals. The choice can still remain to reject or not, but no way in hell that a girl I know will just think I'm trying to be a friend after doing as I just described. If she does, then she would make it clear in her answers, body language, kino escalation, etc.

So if I apply as said on a given girl, and we are still talking, she best not believe I'm just a friend. The moment I pick up on multiple cues that don't reciprocate my intentions, I'm out lol. Ultimately, I guess I'm asking that if I apply all these methods and read the girl as I go, can I still come off as just a friend?

Don't get me wrong, I have had my own share of rejection and being led on, but that was when I was younger and did little to none of the game I just described.

I would like to improve my game with constructive feedback. Thank you.