Hello. I was on a first date with someone on Sunday night. We have little interests that we share but a lot of long term goals align. The conversation didn’t always flow smoothly but at the same time there were very few awkward pauses.

We went from one venue to another. We kissed, we held hands, we had fun at the arcade but I found her conversation skills slightly boring. She is someone who is shy and reserved - contrasting my personality. I even brought the topic up. I got the impression that she is willing to take baby steps out of her comfort zone and eventually jump out of them if she likes it. Immediately after the date, I thought it may not work out.

Now, 2 days after the date, I can’t but think about the moments we shared. I don’t know how to feel about it. Should I give it another go?

For a bit more background, this is how I felt about my first girlfriend. I thought she was boring in person but absolutely missed her in her absence! Anybody else faced this before?