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What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women?

[deleted] · 2022-02-20T09:26:02+00:00

Both for short term relationships and long term relationships, but I prefer something serious and stable...

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February 20, 2022

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Title	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	February 20, 2022 9:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]vroomvroomski 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why wouldn’t you value a woman “like that”?

I would feel gross if people were paying to see my girl naked on the internet. It's also kinda trashy and cheap, not creating real value to the world.

She is a status symbol to you. You are a success object to her.

I'm not sure what you mean by success object but yes it does feel like a good status boost to be with her. She has great connections and we get invited to some crazy parties.

Given your attributes though - it’s still Feminism that is informing you that you should tolerate a 28 year old. 25 years ago, 21 year old you wouldn’t have even considered it unless she was famous. She’s not. 100K on Instagram means she is either Demure - unlikely Ugly - Also unlikely Are you going steady?

I'm not really a feminist and neither is she, she's pretty conservative and anti-woke. I don't think it's a big deal she's older than me, her mom is good looking so she's going to age well. Her followers may be mediocre but she is pretty well connected too, including with a couple a-list celebs. Idk my reasoning feels valid to me, I'm curious why you think it's not a good idea

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