I recently started using tinder to see what the hype is about and I’m doing good with starting some conversations with my matches. I’m not looking for anything serious and I let them know up front… for the ones who want something more serious I tend to let them know that’s not why I’m there. However for the other women who are down (there for a good time not a long time). I’m having trouble asking them/inviting them over which I think makes them second guess meeting up. I usually say something along the lines of “we should grab a quick bite to eat and head to my place afterwards”. Ik it’s hard to meet with men in public so I at least want to let them know we can meet in public first. Was wondering if this is too basic or a creepy approach? Is there a better way I can be straight to the point with out making them second guess?