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Social clubs

No_Database_1458 · 2022-02-06T08:19:08+00:00

I am looking to improve my social skills and pick up skills and was wondering if joining social groups such as a chess club or dance clubs good places to meet...

No_Database_1458

February 6, 2022

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Title	Social clubs
Author	No_Database_1458
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	February 6, 2022 8:19 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/slrrgi/social_clubs/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/social-clubs.1267430 https://theredarchive.com/post/1267430

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[–]pacg 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]No_Database_1458 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]pacg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’ve actually met people at coffee shops. Someone will sit next to me and if something about them catches my attention (something they’re wearing, a book they’re reading or holding, carrying a bag from a store I know) then I’ll strike up a conversation.

I try different approaches with baristas and cashiers to keep in practice because they’re everywhere.I make it a point to be respectful of their time because they’re working so I keep it short and snappy unless they’re not very busy. They’re a great resource practicing the “Hello. How are you?” interaction. I rarely say fine unless I’m in a hurry. I’ve said stuff like, “I’m having a brutal day, but it’ll be sunflowers and bunny rabbits after I get some coffee.”

The opinion opener is a really good way to start any interaction in public. “Hi. If you’ve got a second can I get your opinion on…” Sometimes the person in front of me in the coffee line orders something I’ve never heard of before and I’ll ask her, What is that? Is that good, or is it only kinda good?”

Thinking about it, I don’t haphazardly walk up and talk to people. Something has to catch my attention before I approach.

[–]TheSunflowerSeeds 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link