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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Texting is a waste of time and if you're serious and barely getting to know a girl, should be taken like a grain of salt in means of communication. Face-to-face is better.
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Extended chit chat texting is certainly a waste of time. But to-the-point booty texts are communication efficiency!
[–]AnAngelOfVengeance 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Voice memos are the best kept secret ever. Other than that, the basics. Playingwithfire on YouTube does some really good breakdowns. Goal of course is to get to the point that you call each other, that frees up the text time a lot
[–]BL00DINMYEYES 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alex from Playing with fire on YouTube has some good videos on that. Also on their website
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The most boring thing which women hear from 99% of guys is actually the stuff pick up artist preach you should do as soon as possible, which is build rapport. Rapport is for losers. Questions like where are you from, where do you live, what do you do for work are so increasingly boring to women that you probably get left on read because of them (if you do this shit).
Instead, be confidently playful, have some light sexual innuendo and go for the hang out directly. Don't beat around the bush. Say something like "You know what, you sound funny/interesting/whatever, let's go out. How's this Thursday or Friday night."
it's online dating, it's not your problem, it's like that. just have fun trying things (being completely honest, joking, etc). we men do better outside apps. maybe i'm wrong but humanity still isnt pathetic enough to have a book about chatting with tinder girls, maybe in a few years.
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