How to get a girl in my room and escalate?

DayMental3793 · 2022-01-19T15:46:09+00:00

Alright, I'm going to tell you what I needed to hear as a 20M, lose this women will think you are creepy shit. You are a man, you want to have sex with women, there is nothing creepy about it.

As for getting women back to your place, if you have laid effective ground work, as in you've done enough to get her attracted to you then you can say whatever the hell you want to get her back.

"I need to grab x from my room" and just take her with you.

When you are there just start chatting, get closer and more intimate, at some point either ask her if you can kiss her or just go for it.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-01-19T08:27:19+00:00

But I struggle with flirting without feeling anxious (as if women will find me creepy). I want to try casual sex. But I am genuinely clueless as to how I can take them to my bedroom and hook up.

The answer is to lean into the anxiety and push forward. Give her a chance to respond to your escalation before rejecting yourself.

greg_doucete · 2022-01-19T03:15:07+00:00

do not "touch" her playfully or not 😂, flirt a little and see her response, if you feel a resistance or bad tension, go back to friends vibe

Tough_Opinion_9305 · 2022-01-19T02:58:36+00:00

Do you have a dorm to yourself? Ask a girl if she wants to hang in your dorm and hang is a simple start.

Title	How to get a girl in my room and escalate?
Author	Tough_Opinion_9305
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	January 19, 2022 2:52 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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