If you were in your early 30s and wanted to find an LTR, would you focus more on women in their early 30s or much younger?

[deleted] · 2018-03-31T22:37:59+00:00

Men chase sex. Women chase commitment. Let her actions prove she’s worth your time, attention, and resources. On a side note, I think 25-30 is a great age range for women.

awesomesalsa · 2018-04-01T00:04:29+00:00

Date younger girls and subtly steer them in a RP direction. For example, criticize slutty behavior, feminism, "partying", etc, but in a subtle enough manner that she won't be personally offended. It's a tricky balance.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-04-01T01:40:03+00:00

Is it so bad dating a girl near your own age if she's got a lot of good qualities?

You are tacitly admitting that you prefer younger women, but are having difficulty finding the type that would make a suitable LTR.

What would I do? I would plate a number of young women, carefully vetting them for the type that prefer older men and then I would proceed accordingly, with one or more OLTRs and some additional plates to maintain abundance.

kolluminko · 2018-04-01T01:34:29+00:00

hot girls will commit as young as 18 if they find the right guy

you just aren't that guy yet

melonsle · 2018-04-01T02:19:59+00:00

I'd go for early 30s.

A lot of women I met in their 20s aren't stable, just even as people. They are just figuring out what jobs they want to do, for example. They are not even very expressive or developed in terms of personality, there is a lot of "little girl" still in there. You know, sitting next to her as you drive someplace, and she doesn't even have much to say, because she is still in her shell or still nervous. Lame. Or she talks about TV shows or some shit, instead of real life.

I can't relate to that as an equal, just being totally honest.

kranos33 · 2018-04-01T06:13:40+00:00

I am in the same position. Treat any girl younger than 26, as simply as a 'plate'. Don't spend too much resources/energy.

Now there are plenty of early 20s, that are actually on the serious side and more mature, the fact is that life changes people, and in few years they might be a total different person, and just end it because they still can find another great guy.

As for women between 26-31 you have to divide them into two parts: Mature/serious, still partying it up. The more serious types will start looking up for something more serious, with they girls still in the party phase will keep partying until they reach 31-ish and start looking for something serious then.

Personally, for me I am more attracted to girls in the 27-31 age range, where the sweet spot is, and unfortunately most these girls are usually in demand, and harder to get than both 32+ and under 26yo.

vandaalen · 2018-03-31T22:46:33+00:00

I'd foremostly not be a lazy assclown and read the fucking sidebar as I am told to do.

http://archive.is/yxzC1

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-03-31T22:33:17+00:00

Why would you want an LTR?

Title	If you were in your early 30s and wanted to find an LTR, would you focus more on women in their early 30s or much younger?
Author	kejflk34jlkd
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	March 31, 2018 10:14 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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